My coaching is a three-way conversation between you, your horse, and me. I won’t tell you what to do—I’ll help you discover how to feel it for yourself. Together, we create an environment where learning feels safe, empowering, and even joyful.
No two riders are the same. That’s why every session is tailored—to your learning style, your goals, and your horse’s needs.
“You know your horse better than anyone. I bring the tools and insight to help you uncover what’s holding you back - and how to move forward.”
In every session, I combine biomechanics, emotional awareness, and mindset coaching to help you and your horse communicate more clearly and move more freely.
You’ll gain:
Improved alignment, core stability, and feel
More effective and consistent communication with your horse
Practical tools for addressing confidence blocks, anxiety, or frustration
Personalised exercises to help you strengthen or release specific areas
A deeper understanding of how your position affects your horse’s movement
🧪 Lesson Structure
Whether you're working with me in-person or online, each session is tailored to help you and your horse take the next step forward—mentally, emotionally, and biomechanically.
Duration: 1.5 hours
Includes video recording and post-ride review
Thorough evaluation of you and your horse, on the ground and under saddle
Discussion of goals, mindset, and movement patterns
Personalised exercises and strategies to take away
Duration: 45–60 minutes
Tailored to where you and your horse are on the day
May include groundwork, in-hand work, or ridden work
Optional physical guidance (always with consent)
Targeted exercises and mindset tools as needed
Duration: 1.5 hours
Includes partial video recording to track changes over time
Post-lesson discussion to reflect on progress and refine goals
Space to explore confidence, fear, or self-belief challenges if needed
Distance doesn’t have to mean disconnected. Online lessons are an effective way to continue your progress from anywhere in the world.
Duration: 45–60 minutes
Real-time guidance as you ride or work with your horse
Requires Bluetooth headset and strong internet connection
Also suitable for groundwork, in-hand work, or post-ride reflection
Optional pre-recorded video review as part of the session
Submit a pre-recorded video (10 minutes max)Receive a detailed voice-over or written analysis
Includes follow-up call to clarify insights and provide homework
Great for self-paced learners or those needing flexible timing
“Many of my clients combine in-person and online coaching, allowing us to stay connected and consistent -even between clinics or during travel.”
Early sessions tend to focus on the rider, because often it’s the rider’s alignment, patterns, or emotional state that influence the horse’s behavior. However, if your horse is struggling with tension, imbalance, or problematic behaviors, we’ll address that first.
This is a dynamic process where we focus on what needs support most in the moment.
This method breaks down the techniques used by elite riders into learnable components. Through video feedback, body alignment cues, and touch (with permission),
I help you:
Understand what top riders do differently
Build awareness of your body in motion
Improve coordination, influence, and connection with your horse
Learn more about RWYM™ Coaches → https://mary-wanless.com/coach-certification/
Sometimes, it’s not your position that’s blocking your progress—it’s a pattern of thinking or emotion. I use NLP to help you:
Shift fear, self-doubt, or performance anxiety
Build confidence and focus
Reprogram limiting beliefs about yourself or your horse
Some biomechanical adjustments may involve hands-on guidance to help you find correct alignment. I will always ask before doing so, and you are free to opt out at any time.
You don’t need to be a professional or have fancy gear. You just need to be open to learning, and willing to work with compassion—for yourself and your horse.
Book your first session or reach out if you’d like to discuss your situation. I’m here to help you ride with more ease, confidence, and understanding.
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to ride with more awareness, balance, and connection!
In this 20-minute lesson, I’ll guide you through powerful rider and horse-focused techniques—like using your seat for transitions, improving flexion, and feeling what your horse is really telling you.
No fluff. Just quiet, practical prompts to help you ride like the mindful rider you’re meant to be.